If you’re familiar with casual hookups, then you’re probably familiar with the half-hungover (maybe even half-dressed) chick walking down the stairs from her apartment. This kind of walk of shame happens too often, accompanied by the awkward feeling like “Where did I park my car?” You have to end up texting her number that you got the night before asking where you parked your car. What a great way to start off any relationship, right? The walk of shame doesn’t have to be shameful, nor does it have to be a “walk”. You can turn what was once a social travesty into a strut of fame and all your buddies will envy you. Start a revolution and be proud when you leave her place, because dammit, you scored big time.
It’s OK for Her to Spend the Night
It used to be almost a taboo to let a girl stay for the night, or for you to stay the night at a girl’s place. Think about it. Did you ever really understand why? For most guys it was just an etiquette rule passed down through the ages. For some reason, you didn’t let women stay the night and you didn’t stay at their place or they’d automatically get too attached. Now, this style of thinking is a little outdated. Automatically assuming every woman is going to think you’re dating just because she stayed the night isn’t putting a lot of faith in them, is it? Yeah, it’s true that there are some women clingy enough to think that. But most are just going to see it like you want them to: it was sex, it’s still sex, and some more sex the morning after last night’s hookup can’t hurt.
You Don’t Have to Kick Her Out Right Away
You should be proud of what you did. Undoubtedly, if you went out as a group looking to score, at least one of your buddies went home without a babe. If they give you hell for letting her stay over, they’re probably just jealous. Kicking her out immediately in the morning just makes you seem like a real jerk. There’s no reason for you to wake up in the morning and automatically ask her to leave. We’re not saying that you have to cook her a three-course breakfast (though with any luck, when you wake up she’ll be in your kitchen cooking for you, naked) but you don’t have to be a jerk about it. You don’t have to invite her to move in, but letting her stay beyond the first crack of dawn can certainly work in your best interest. Maybe a sexy shower together before she gets dressed and leaves is in order. It’ll do wonders for your reputation and if your buddies show up later in the morning to hang out then they’ll have to pass a gorgeous babe on their way up to your front door. They’ll know that not only did you score big, she was happy enough with you to stay till late. With just a little forward-thinking, you can start a revolution to end the walk of shame and have the girls busting down your door for a chance to hook up with you.